But girls, trust me when I tell you that the uniform is the worst possible reason to date a soldier - you should be wanting to date the man and not the uniform!! Featured image — Pearl Harbor. If there is one thing constantly available within a military relationship it is the opportunity to create scenarios of mistrust. In one sense, they are one of the best at dealing with women who want both independence and interdependence. Now you have the pre-deployment basics and moving on to what you can expect It's as if the army want to prepare us by gradually removing contact.
It is common to jump from one emotion to another in the blink of an eye.
British Army Girlfriend Handbook
The good news is that after several deployments you move through all the stages at a faster pace. What is it about a man in uniform that we women find so darn sexy? We have learnt to do rely on ourselves to get all things done, we now have to begin the process of sharing the responsibilities form parental to home decisions. Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. Keep in mind you have been in a long distance relationship, as excited as you are to have him home, it is normal to feel some degree of uncertainty.